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Can you feel it in the air? Can you tell what time of year it is? It starts in September, rapid fire. What are we doing for Halloween, Thanksgiving and then Hanukkah and Christmas, err, I mean, the holidays?
Almost no one has an issue with Halloween. After years of telling the little ones to take nothing from strangers, we dress up our little people, scare the life out of them and then tell them it’s funny. Make sure you check your candy and don’t talk to strangers, except to those people in masks giving out candy because they’re not really strangers. They’re just people dressed up strangely giving out candy that might not be safe.
Then there’s Thanksgiving. If you get past the revisionist history that states Christopher Columbus massacred the Indians and then gave thanks, read up on the real Thanksgiving story.
And instead of swallowing the load of commercialized garbage we’re being fed, simply give thanks and enjoy the time with your family.
Hanukkah comes next, then Christmas. No one really seems to be offended by Hanukkah greetings or displays. But mention Christmas, and all hell breaks loose.
Then, the real battle begins. No, not deciding what to buy for whom or who gets a gift at the office and who doesn’t, but deciding if it’s acceptable to say, “Merry Christmas.” Well, can you?
I was at the barber shop the other day, and I noticed that there were no Christmas or holiday decorations. When I asked about it, I was told the corporate office said there was not to be any type of celebration of the Christmas/holiday season.
“That’s odd. Why?” I asked.
“We might offend someone,” he replied.
Well, you just did — me. And I make up part of the 72 percent of Americans who say they believe in God, and a larger amount who say they are not offended when offered a “Merry Christmas” in a genuine way.
I recently had the pleasure of interviewing a rabbi, an atheist, a pastor, a swami and a spiritualist. When I asked each if they were offended by celebrations of Christmas, Christmas greetings or well-wishers offering merry Christmas during this time of year, the answer was a resounding “no.” It was unanimous.
When you ask most people in the streets, the answer, again, is, “no.” So, what’s the problem? The majority of people have spoken over and over again.
The real problem is a small percentage of people who think justice is done only when they are satisfied with the outcome.
For example, a school district has declared that gift exchanges in the classroom can’t be done because they are too religious in nature.
Huh? Giving someone a gift is religious? Or is it only religious during the holiday giving season?
Another school district has banned Santa from being on the school grounds during the day. Why? Because he is a religious symbol. Really? When did that happen?
Then, there is the group that is asking us to boycott the Salvation Army’s Santa bell-ringers. Seriously?
Yes, because the Salvation Army doesn’t condone the gay, lesbian and transgender lifestyles. However, if a gay, lesbian or transgender person requests help at a Salvation Army, he or she is not turned away.
Why is it OK to say, “Merry Christmas?” Because 99 percent of the American population will smile when you say it, and it usually follows with a corresponding, “And a merry Christmas to you!” That’s a good thing.
Christmas means that 99 percent of the people are actually out there looking for something they can get or do for someone to brighten up his or her day. That’s a good thing.
And for a brief period in time, Christmastime, more people are employed, families take the time to come together and, as painful as it is at times, work to enjoy each other’s company.
Even the atheists and others who don’t celebrate Christmas take advantage of and benefits during this season. They usually get the day off with pay or work it at time and a half. Even the government takes the Christmas break off (So much for separation of church and state — where is that again?)
And for those of us who really understand the meaning of the season, we get the best gift of all, Jesus, the ultimate gift given to us. For us, he is really the reason we have this season. So, whether you believe, whether you prefer “happy holidays,” today you will receive a merry Christmas and a safe and prosperous new year from my family to yours.
Joe Messina is a local business owner, pundit, blogger, host of “The Real Side Radio Show” and elected member to the 38th AD Republican Central Committee.



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